The first few days with a newborn are a total rush. You’re filled with adrenaline, exhaustion, love, tears, and so many questions. But you’re made to believe that you’ve totally got this. Everything will come naturally to you, your pain is a given, you’ll be tired, you won’t feel like yourself. And this is all normal because you have a newborn. Right?

Well, not quite. The good news is you’re already an incredible parent. But there’s no denying that all new parents need more. We need frequent check-ins from our doctors. We need better access to services like postpartum doulas, pelvic floor therapy, and lactation consultants. And we need routine visits in the comfort of our own home — plus insurance to pay for it all.

But until the necessities become the norm, Healthline Parenthood is here to guide you through this challenging time. We’ve dedicated a collection of articles to what you’re going through in those first few weeks after having a baby. Some of our favorites are below. Welcome to The First 42 Days.

Jamie Webber
Editorial Director, Healthline Parenthood